Either is happiness or sorrow

“My dad and I always had this relationship - not being able to talk about deeper things, emotions or feelings. Even if we couldn’t talk about things that would have been important, now that he's gone, I think I appreciated having a dad. I am thankful for all the times he brought me to nature for hiking, or explore caves, or he just told me how important it was to read. I even miss all gatherings with his friends when they got drunk all night talking about the good old times. I wish there was some kind of intimacy between us, to be able to tell him the things I achieved, things I've overcome, things I needed answers for. I wish he could have met my girlfriend and see all the things that life will bring you. Either is happiness or sorrow.”

Gergely, 37
Oslo, Norway
August 2019